The shrill of a woman break the silence of the night in this otherwise serenity neighborhood laced with crickets merrily singing away. It slowly became clear to me that the woman was having a quarrel with the husband and against the background was a cry of a frightened baby, who must have wished for the parents to calm down.

Why is it that when one falls in love, its all nice and rosy, and you are only too ready to give in into each other. But when one falls out of love, it than becomes a dilemma and in some cases, the couple may develope hatred for each other.

How did it happened that one could become a slave to Love to suffer the pains and hurt. How did one even began to fall in love? Was falling in love an action of impulse to begin with and complacency turned couples to strangers.

During the period of been together, how has it occur that the 2 persons who were once so in love could become stranger, even if the flesh is together, the spiritual togetherness of the 2 persons in love is lost and that caused agony and pain to one another.. where have the love gone to.

A couple who failed to realised that something is amiss in the early stage of the relation, gives each other an easier excuse to fall into the temptation of having an affair.

As the chinese saying goes: 十年修得同船渡，百年修得共枕眠. If fate has brought 2 person together, than the couple will have to work at it together to keep the romance alive and cherish one another.

A happy ending is no fairy tale and couples must be willing to work at it together only with a foundation laid with LOVE for one another, than no problem would have become a problem anymore.

Had tried to post a new blog in chinese but it had took me forever simply trying to find the right expression for fluency.
Reading is a much easier job :p

I was pondering on the word 单－ a word when use singularly, simply means ONO, and when use with another word can be translated to simple, innocent, singlehood. All of which in a single word describes me!

Simple, minimist is how i like and can be seen in the way i dress (or under dress). The simplicity is also reflected in the way i have done up my house - clean-cut minus all the clutters of the frilly frills.

If i have my way, i wish i could live a life of simplicity of child-like innocence, which does not equate to being naive or simpleton.. but being a matured individual, I have the cow sense to know that is impossible.

Singlehood, a noun used on me in the last couple of years and still getting use to it, afterall, i was once married for 14 years!
Now staying by myself, i enjoy the freedom that i have not had for the longest time and liking it every single day. Have i thought of getting hitched, I sure hope so, someday... for now, i'm happy finally for being just ME!

因为好奇，而读了朋友的blog也因此启发了我想在这片空间里抒发自己的心情来做笔录。
用华语来表达和写作对我而言是相当的困难，可我想借用这机会来加强自己对母语的认识。
为自己加油！