Love is the Foundation?
3.31.2006
@ 12:22 AM
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The shrill of a woman break the silence of the night in this otherwise serenity neighborhood laced with crickets merrily singing away. It slowly became clear to me that the woman was having a quarrel with the husband and against the background was a cry of a frightened baby, who must have wished for the parents to calm down.
Why is it that when one falls in love, its all nice and rosy, and you are only too ready to give in into each other. But when one falls out of love, it than becomes a dilemma and in some cases, the couple may develope hatred for each other.
How did it happened that one could become a slave to Love to suffer the pains and hurt. How did one even began to fall in love? Was falling in love an action of impulse to begin with and complacency turned couples to strangers.
During the period of been together, how has it occur that the 2 persons who were once so in love could become stranger, even if the flesh is together, the spiritual togetherness of the 2 persons in love is lost and that caused agony and pain to one another.. where have the love gone to.
A couple who failed to realised that something is amiss in the early stage of the relation, gives each other an easier excuse to fall into the temptation of having an affair.
As the chinese saying goes: 十年修得同船渡,百年修得共枕眠. If fate has brought 2 person together, than the couple will have to work at it together to keep the romance alive and cherish one another.
A happy ending is no fairy tale and couples must be willing to work at it together only with a foundation laid with LOVE for one another, than no problem would have become a problem anymore.

